en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shudo#Terminology
Kusamanko (腐マンコ
-lit: Rotten cunt – A woman who is interested in boys-love and gay culture to an abnormal extent, usually an otaku. Among some circles it is used to refer to all women regardless of the degree of attention they pay the culture.
Neko (ネコ
Literally "cat" (and sometimes written with the kanji for cat, though more often in katakana, as above), this word refers to the bottom, or passive/receptive partner, especially in anal sex. In lesbian relationships, the woman who expresses more traditionally feminine traits is the neko; see "femme" in English usage. The etymology is unclear. In current use.
ну и вот еще на почитать:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_China
а я вот и не знала, очень познавателтная статья:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend_of_Dorothy
и, кстати, в Китае есть лав-отели. только я не знаю, какие они вообще бывают, я видела грязненький ))